Baptism
What do I need to do to have my child baptized?
You need to be either a registered parishioner in good standing
or the child of an active parishioner in good standing. In the case of
the latter, you will need a letter from your own pastor granting permission
for you to have your child baptized at St. Ambrose.
Do I need
to attend baptismal preparation class?
If this is your first child, there is a baptismal preparation
program you will need to attend. This is offered in both English and
Spanish. If you are from outside the parish, you may attend your own
parish preparation program, or that offered at St. Ambrose. If this
is not your first child, you will still need to meet with one of our
priests prior to the baptism.
Are Godparents necessary?
Yes. For children, two sponsors are needed. They may be one
man or one woman or two of the same sex. Also, at least one of the sponsors
must be a practicing Catholic above the age of 16. If one of the sponsors
is not a Catholic, they must be a baptized person in good standing with
their own Christian denomination.
May visiting clergy do the baptism?
Yes. A relative or friend of the family who is either a Catholic
priest or deacon may administer the sacrament with the permission of
the pastor.
Marriage
Who can request a wedding at St. Ambose?
First, you must be a practicing Catholic. Next, if you are
a registered member of the parish in good standing, or if your parents
are currently registered parishioners in good standing, you may request
a wedding by first contacting one of our clergy. This contact must be
at least 6 months prior to your planned wedding.
Are there any restrictions on when the wedding can
be celebrated at St. Ambrose?
Saturdays are normally reserved for weddings either in the
morning or early afternoon. There are no weddings allowed after 2:30
p.m. Also, weddings are discouraged during the seasons of Advent and
Lent and the weeks following both Christmas and Easter.
What is required to prepare for the wedding?
Couples must meet with the parish priest as he deems needed,
participate in a marriage preparation program, complete the prenuptial
questionnaire and comply with the civil license requirement.
Can a Catholic married in a civil ceremony be remarried
in the church?
Yes. A Catholic can have their civil marriage validated by
the Church. This is done in consultation with the parish priest. However,
a Church wedding in such circumstances should be kept simple.
Can a priest or deacon from outside St. Ambrose
officiate at the wedding?
Yes. However the parish priests at St. Ambrose, as representative
of the parish community, should be given priority. Also, before any
visiting clergy is invited to officiate, the permission of the pastor
must be given because any visiting clergy must have delegation from
the pastor to officiate at the wedding.
Can a minister of another Christian denomination
or rabbi officiate at the celebration?
No. The minister who officiates must be a Catholic priest or
deacon. However, clergy from other traditions may participate.
Can musicians other than those at St. Ambrose provide
music for the ceremony?
Yes, but we ask that priority be given to our parish musicians.
Also, no secular music is allowed during the liturgy.
Funerals
Can anyone request a funeral at St. Ambrose?
Normally, only parishioners may have a funeral at St. Ambrose.
However, requests from others, especially former parishioners, will
be given due consideration after consultation with the pastor.
Is cremation allowed?
Yes. Though not the norm for Catholics, it is allowed, and
the cremated remains are permitted in the Church. After the funeral
the remains must be interred in a cemetery plot, in the same way that
a body would be. If you are considering cremation, we do ask that you
consult with the parish clergy prior to making this decision. The consultation
is often helpful during this difficult time.
Can musicians other than those at St. Ambrose provide
music for the funeral liturgy?
Yes, but we ask that priority be given to our parish musicians.
Also, no secular music is allowed during the funeral liturgy.
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